Three Word Podcast

Episode 208 Are Vacations Good?

Create Sales meetings in minutes. Lisa Thal is an Author, Speaker, and Business Coach. She has over 36 years of marketing, sales, and leadership experience. She wrote the book "Three Word Meetings."  Lisa coaches leaders on creating sales and business meetings with fun and interesting 3-word topics to create a conversation and inspire your sales tea

 

 

Episode 208  discusses Why Taking Vacations is Good for You and Your Business! 

 

I hope you are listening to this podcast while you're on vacation. Perhaps your taking a walk or sitting by the ocean sipping your favorite beverage. Here are three words for you, Relax, Refresh and Recharge.

 

 

According to a new survey from Pew Research Center, only 48% of US workers say they use all their vacation days. Those who don't take all their time off say it's because they don't need it or worry about falling behind at work or feeling bad about co-workers carrying their load. 

Mar 30, 2023

 

I hope you will be encouraged to book your next getaway.

 

What if you're in sales?

Your role is to meet targets, hit quotas, and close deals constantly as a salesperson. Most of us feel like we need to be on call around the clock, available to answer calls and emails and jump on any opportunity that comes our way. With all these responsibilities, it can be tough to make time for yourself. Yet, taking vacations is a crucial aspect of self-care, not just for your mental health but also for your sales. 

 

We'll explore why vacations benefit you and your business and how you can maximize your downtime.

 

Boost your creativity:

Sales are all about creativity, thinking differently to solve your customer's needs. However, constantly being on the go can lead to burnout, and you may struggle to develop new ideas. Taking a break from your routine can have a significant impact and help inspire your creativity. On vacation, you gain exposure to new environments, people, experiences, and cultures. This exposure can give you a fresh perspective and recharge you. It's amazing what a change of scenery can do to invigorate your mind.  

 

Improve your mental health:

Sales can be high-stress, with constant pressure to meet targets and close deals. This pressure can harm your mental health, leading to burnout, anxiety, and depression. Taking a vacation allows disconnecting from work, relaxing, and recharging. Breaks help reduce stress, improve overall well-being, and increase happiness. As a salesperson, you want to be at your best, and taking time off can help you achieve that.

 

Better relationships:

Sales is a people-oriented job; building relationships is critical to closing deals, winning clients, and growing your business. However, relationships require time and effort to cultivate. If you're always working, you may find it challenging to connect with your clients on a personal level. Taking vacations can help you build better relationships with your clients and loved ones. When you're on vacation, you're more likely to engage in activities you enjoy, which can help you form stronger bonds with the people around you.

 

Increased productivity:

When you return to work, taking time off to relax and recharge can boost your productivity. Similar to how athletes take breaks to recover, a vacation can help you become stronger, more energized, and more productive than ever. Studies have shown that employees who take regular vacations are more effective, have higher morale, and are less likely to burn out. By taking a break, you're investing in your productivity.

 

Personal Growth:

Sales is a challenging job that requires personal and professional growth. This growth is essential to continuing your success in the industry and achieving your long-term goals. However, staying curious can only happen when you take time to reflect, learn, and evolve. Vacation can create the perfect opportunity to reset your perspectives, learn new things, and create plans for your future. Use your time off to read books on sales, personal development, or fiction. Take a class, participate in workshops, or learn something new. Your future self and business will thank you.

 

 

As a salesperson, taking vacations has numerous benefits for your mental and physical health and professional life. So, take that time off to explore new places, unplug, relax, reflect, read, and recharge. 

 

When you return, you will be more focused on handling sales challenges, building better relationships, and closing more deals. Remember, you're in this profession for the long haul, and investing in yourself is the key to achieving long-term success.

 

So make it a priority to use your vacation, whether you take a day, several days, or weeks. I am going to Hocking Hills on a long weekend to spend time with some of my besties. One thing I know for sure, my mental health and business will be better because of it. 

 

Now time for you to book or take your next vacation!

 

Create engaging sales meetings in minutes! 

My easy-to-use process can quickly create impactful meetings tailored to your team's needs. 

 

Learn more at www.Threewordmeetings.com.

Episode 207, The One Superpower you need in Sales and Life!

Create Sales meetings in minutes. Lisa Thal is an Author, Speaker, and Business Coach. She has over 36 years of marketing, sales, and leadership experience. She wrote the book "Three Word Meetings."  Lisa coaches leaders on creating sales and business meetings with fun and interesting 3-word topics to create a conversation and inspire your sales team.

 

Episode 207, The One Superpower you need in Sales and Life!

How do we navigate rejection in our life and business.

Don't Fear Rejection!

 

Today we are talking about Rejection! Let me ask you a question, When I say Rejection, which emotions typically arise, anger, sadness, embarrassment, and shame? But what if we shift or, better yet, reframe how we feel when we face and think about Rejection?

 

Learning how to manage Rejection is a key SuperPower you can use in all aspects of your life.

 

The difference is how we frame, feel about, and respond to Rejection. We don't need to Fear Rejection; we face and embrace it. It has been my experience that through all the Rejection I met, I learned something about myself or grew from each experience. 

 

What about your career, especially if you're in sales?

Sales can be a gratifying career but also present its share of challenges. One of the toughest hurdles to overcome is Rejection. No matter how skilled or knowledgeable you are, there will always be times when potential customers say no. While it's painful to hear that someone isn't interested in what you have to offer, it's important to remember that it's not personal. 

 

Let's explore five strategies to help you overcome Rejection and succeed in sales.

 

 

Reframe Your Mindset

 

The first step in dealing with Rejection is to shift your mindset. Instead of seeing a "no" as a personal failure, try reframing it as an opportunity to learn and improve. Every Rejection is a chance to gain insight into how to approach the next potential customer better. Celebrate each "no" as a "not yet" or a step closer to a "yes."  

 

 

Be Resilient

 

Resilience is key in sales. You need to bounce back from Rejection and keep moving forward. One of the best ways to cultivate resilience is by practicing self-care. Take daily breaks, hydrate, eat healthy, and get enough sleep. When you feel refreshed and energized, you will have the energy to work through Rejection.

 

 

Don't Take It Personally.

 

It's important to remember that Rejection is not about you. It's about your product or service not fitting for that particular customer. Don't take it personally or let it affect your self-esteem. Remember, your job is your role, not your identity.

 

 

Stay Curious

 

If a potential customer says no, take the opportunity to ask for feedback. Ask them what they didn't like about your product or service, why they decided not to move forward, and why they went with a different vendor. You can identify areas for improvement and refine your approach for the next time. It also shows the customer that you're committed to continually improving and providing the best possible experience.

 

 

Get Support

 

Finally, don't be afraid to lean on your support system when dealing with Rejection. Many people I have coached, and athletes tend to use Rejection as a chip on their should and use that energy to prove others wrong. That may work for some. What if you reframed Rejection in more of a positive way? Show the people that believe in you that they were right. Life is full of setbacks, and you will find a way to get there. 

 

So, surround yourself with positive, supportive people who can offer encouragement to stay motivated. Whether it's a colleague, friend, mentor, or family member, having someone to talk to can make a big difference. Surround yourself with people that energize you versus take energy from you.

 

 

In sales and life, Rejection is inevitable, but it doesn't have to be the end of the road. By reframing your mindset, practicing resilience, not taking Rejection personally, staying curious, and surrounding yourself with people that believe in you, you can bounce back from Rejection and ultimately succeed in sales. 

 

 

Remember that every "no" brings you closer to a "yes," and that every Rejection is an opportunity to learn, grow, and improve. So don't get discouraged - keep pushing forward, make the adjustments, and you'll achieve your goals.

 

 

Create engaging sales meetings in minutes! 

My easy-to-use process can quickly create impactful meetings tailored to your team's needs. 

 

Learn more at www.Threewordmeetings.com.

Episode 206, Creating Habits Matter!

Create Sales meetings in minutes. Lisa Thal is an Author, Speaker, and Business Coach. She has over 36 years of marketing, sales, and leadership experience. She wrote the book "Three Word Meetings."  Lisa coaches leaders on creating sales and business meetings with fun and interesting 3-word topics to create a conversation and inspire your sales team.

 

Episode 206 Creating Habits Matter.

Power of Habits: Why Focusing on Behaviors Produces Better Results.

 

I saw a post on Facebook about the habits that make a champion. It was as follows: "You don't get results by focusing on results. You get results by focusing on the habits and behaviors that produce results".

 

Positive Habits + Consistency = Success!

 

Could it be that that simple to achieve Success in any area of your life? 

I started to think about the habits in my life. 

 

Sleep Habit - I go to bed and get up each morning at about the same time.   

 

Mediation Habit - I meditate every morning while drinking my coffee.

 

Exercise Habit - I run my dogs every morning at 5 am; yes, I know, crazy, but at 5 am.  

 

Nutrition Habit - I drink a protein smoothie shake every morning and eat about the same things daily except for weekend dining out.

 

Work Habit - I prioritize my day on the actions that will move my business forward.

 

Some of you may be thinking that I have created good routines.

 

The definition of a habit is the impulse to do a behavior with little or no conscious thought. Like brushing your teeth, you do it with very little thought. A routine is a series of behaviors frequently repeated. 

 

Imagine you're a salesperson at the end of the quarter and struggling to meet your sales targets. You've been working harder than ever, putting in longer hours, and constantly looking at your numbers. But despite your efforts, you're still not hitting your targets.

 

Sound familiar? You're not alone. Many salespeople and business professionals focus solely on results, thinking that the more you do something, the better the outcome. But what if I told you that you don't get results by focusing on results? Instead, concentrating on the habits and behaviors that produce results would be a better strategy.

 

 

It's easy to get caught up in the numbers and the end goal, but the truth is that the behavior and habits responsible for getting you there are just as important. Habits and behaviors are the foundation of Success and are the key to achieving long-lasting and sustainable results.

 

When you focus on your habits, you create a system that works for you. You make small changes that can significantly impact your work and help you develop a more efficient and successful way of accomplishing your goals.

 

It's not easy to change or develop habits overnight, but the more you focus on the behaviors that produce results, the more your brain will adjust, and the more likely it is for you to see a difference. Whether it's building a habit of prospecting for new clients every morning or creating a routine for following up with leads, breaking down your sales process into actionable habits will ultimately lead to better results.

 

Another benefit of focusing on behaviors rather than immediate results is that it allows for experimentation and improved learning. When you're solely focused on hitting targets or getting quick results, you may be hesitant to try new strategies or approaches, fearing that they will negatively impact your numbers.

 

However, when you focus on habits and behaviors, you open yourself to new possibilities, creating room for growth and development.

 

Remember that your habits and behaviors are also a reflection of your mindset. If you focus on the results, you will likely create limiting beliefs that can hold you back. However, shifting your focus to the small, actionable steps that lead to those results creates a more positive and growth-focused mindset. Your mindset plays a crucial role in your ability to achieve Success, and by focusing on the behaviors that produce results, you train your brain to think and act differently.

 

 

It's easy to fall into the trap of focusing solely on results. Still, to see long-lasting and sustainable Success, it's essential to focus on the behaviors and habits that produce those results. Small, actionable steps taken over time can make a significant difference in your work, leading to improved sales performance and greater Success.

 

So the next time you're struggling to hit a target or achieve a goal, remember that your habits are the foundation for Success, and by focusing on them, anything is possible. The key is to start!

 

Create engaging sales meetings in minutes! 

My easy-to-use process can quickly create impactful meetings tailored to your team's needs. 

 

Learn more at www.Threewordmeetings.com.

Episode 205, Living Life on your Terms.

Create Sales meetings in minutes. Lisa Thal is an Author, Speaker, and Business Coach. She has over 36 years of marketing, sales, and leadership experience. She wrote the book "Three Word Meetings."  Lisa coaches leaders on creating sales and business meetings with fun and interesting 3-word topics to create a conversation and inspire your sales team.

 

The past weekend, I was thinking about the significance of July 4.

You may wonder, "Why do we celebrate the 4th of July? What does it mean?" Well, this day is incredibly significant in American history. It marks the day the Declaration of Independence was adopted (July 4, 1776), and the United States officially became its own nation. American citizens celebrate America's birthday with festivals, parades, fireworks, barbecues, golf, pool parties, and other festive activities.

 

What does Independence mean to you?  

What it means to me is to live my life on my terms! Imagine the ability to live your life without restrictions as you wish. Independence with your health, the friends you decide to spend time with, freedom to choose whom to love, financial freedom, and freedom to be yourself.

 

 

If you're in sales, you too can Declare Independence. You can work with the clients you choose to work with and have the ability to make as much money as you desire. Yes, it is possible. 

 

Chances are you've heard the phrase "make your schedule" countless times. While it may sound like a dream come true to be able to control your own time, it can be difficult to navigate the world of sales with so many external pressures and expectations placed on you. However, living life on your terms as a sales professional is possible and incredibly rewarding. 

 

Let's explore some comparisons to help you achieve this lifestyle.

 

Sales as a Creative Outlet

Sales may sound like a numbers game, but it can also be a form of creative expression. Like an artist or musician, you can choose your methods, develop your style, and build relationships with clients that suit your unique personality. You are not bound to the traditional nine-to-five office culture that many feel stifles their creativity. Instead, you can experiment with different approaches and techniques, even if they are unconventional. Embrace this aspect of sales and use it to fulfill your creative passions, whether through innovative outreach strategies or simply making your sales calls more enjoyable.

 

Sales as a Path to Financial Freedom

One major perk of sales is the potential for unlimited income. While building a solid revenue stream may take time, the sky is truly the limit regarding how much you can earn. This financial freedom allows you to live on your terms rather than being tied to a salary or pay scale. For many, controlling their income is incredibly liberating and allows them to achieve their desired lifestyle. Keep this in mind and work towards your goals with the understanding that every sale brings you one step closer to the life you want. One step closer to choosing whom you want to work with from a client perspective.

 

Sales as a Method of Personal Growth

Sales are not just about closing deals and making money. It is also a space for personal growth and development. Through the ups and downs of the sales journey, you learn valuable communication skills, persistence, and resilience. In many ways, sales allow you to test your limits and overcome challenges uniquely and rewardingly. Use this opportunity to discover what truly motivates you, both in your professional and personal life. As you grow and develop as a salesperson, you'll also realize that you are capable of much more than you ever thought possible.

 

Sales as a Means of Flexibility

Finally, one of the sales' most exciting aspects is its flexibility. Unlike many other professions, sales allow you to work anywhere, whether in your home office, a coffee shop, or even on the go. This flexibility will enable you to create a schedule that fits your unique lifestyle rather than trying to conform to an external model. Whether you prefer to work in the early morning or late at night, you can customize your day to suit your needs and priorities. Remember that this flexibility is a privilege, so use it wisely and make the most of your time by working efficiently and effectively.

 

 

As a sales professional, you can live life on your terms. You can build the lifestyle you desire by viewing sales as a creative outlet, a path to financial freedom, personal development, and a source of flexibility. Of course, achieving this level of autonomy takes time and effort, but the results are well worth it. So, go ahead and claim your Independence and live life on your terms.

 

 

Create engaging sales meetings in minutes! 

My easy-to-use process can quickly create impactful meetings tailored to your team's needs. 

 

Learn more at www.Threewordmeetings.com.

Episode 204, Time to Reset!

Create Sales meetings in minutes. Lisa Thal is an Author, Speaker, and Business Coach. She has over 36 years of marketing, sales, and leadership experience. She wrote the book "Three Word Meetings."  Lisa coaches leaders on creating sales and business meetings with fun and interesting 3-word topics to create a conversation and inspire your sales team.

 

Episode 204 Time to Reset

 

How to Reset Your Year and Achieve Sales Success!

 

I was in a coaching session with a seller whose year was not going as planned. A few key accounts did not renew, and some clients spent less than the prior year. Good news a few new clients, but not enough to offset the losses.

Does any of this sound familiar? Add some personal distractions, and she became unfocused. 

 

The big question is what to do next.

 

It's Mid-year check-in time. 

How would you rate your performance on a scale of 1-10?

You don't have to wait until next year to impact this year.

As sales professionals or business owners, it's essential to evaluate each month, and mid-year is a great time to reset your focus and determine strategies for achieving your targets. But what if the year has not gone as planned, and you feel you're off to a slow start? Don't worry; there's still time to reset your year and achieve sales success.

 

Here are five tips to help you get back on track, make the most of the year, and set yourself up for a better next year.

 

Review your performance thus far.

The first step is we have to be honest with ourselves. We need to understand what's been working and what hasn't. Look at your sales numbers, conversion rates, and pipeline of client opportunities. Identify any areas where you've fallen short and think about why that might be. Did you take on too much at the start of the year? Did you focus on the wrong prospects? Most of us have accounts on our list that we should not be calling on. Which clients can you create a conversation with that you can help? You can start making changes once you understand what's been holding you back.

 

Revisit your goals.

Hopefully, you set specific sales goals for yourself at the start of the year. If you haven't achieved those goals yet, it might be time to adjust them based on your performance thus far. But don't give up on them entirely. Revisit your goals and create a plan to get back on track. Consider whether you need to refine your approach, invest in new sales tools, or work on your time management skills. Breaking down your goals into smaller, more manageable steps can help you stay motivated and focused.

 

Focus on quality over quantity.

Let me start by saying that not every account is a fit! As a salesperson, getting caught up in the numbers game is easy. However, chasing every possible opportunity can harm your chances of success. Instead, focus on cultivating quality relationships with your prospects and customers. Take the time to understand their needs, discover if they have a budget to solve those issues, and match your service or product as a solution to their pain. You'll likely find that this approach leads to more sales in the long run.

 

 

Reconnect with your customers.

One of the most overlooked ways to reset your year is to reconnect with your customers. Contact your existing clients, make new connections, schedule time on their calendars, and ask if anything has changed with their business since you last spoke. Find a way to know their unique goals, challenges, and objectives. This will help you build trust and rapport and give valuable insights into their needs and preferences. Identify someone they have a business connection with that perhaps they can do an introduction to you.

 

 

Stay positive and persistent.

Finally, it's essential to stay positive and persistent throughout the year. Remember that sales is a tough job, and rejection is normal. But every "no" brings you closer to a "yes." A no may mean not now and perhaps a future opportunity. Keep your focus on your goals, maintain a positive attitude, and don't give up. Remember, progress equals happiness.

 

 

Resetting your year as a salesperson can be challenging, but it's also an opportunity for growth and improvement. By reviewing your performance, revisiting your goals, focusing on quality over quantity, reconnecting with your customers, and staying positive and persistent, you can get back on track for a successful year. Remember, it's not about achieving perfection but progressing towards your goals. So, take a deep breath, refocus your energies, and prepare to achieve sales success in the upcoming months.

 

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Episode 203, Real Men do this!

Create Sales meetings in minutes. Lisa Thal is an Author, Speaker, and Business Coach. She has over 36 years of marketing, sales, and leadership experience. She wrote the book "Three Word Meetings."  Lisa coaches leaders on creating sales and business meetings with fun and interesting 3-word topics to create a conversation and inspire your sales team.

 

Episode 203 is about The Power of Mentorship in Business and How it Can Propel You to Success. Real Men Mentor!

 

I was thinking about all the Fathers and men that have impacted my road to success. The great men I work alongside today. The clients I have worked with throughout my 36-year career. The men took the time to teach me something that could benefit me and my career. Real Men Mentor!

 

Before starting in the business world, I thought business success was all about hard work and dedication. But it wasn't until I gained a mentor that I realized how beneficial it is to have someone with more experience guide me. I'll share why mentorship is important in business and how it can propel you to success.

 

I was having lunch with Frank, a client, mentor, and friend. I met Frank over Thirty Years ago while working at WLW Radio. I was calling on Frank, who then owned a Popular Hair Salon called Phyllis at Madison, to advertise his salon on our radio stations. Frank understood the power of marketing and how it could impact the salon's revenue. 

 

He was masterful at creating a unique marketing message with convenience to purchase and an exceptional customer experience. The program was called the Afternoon Affair. An afternoon of you getting pampered! The marketing Frank did around this program had his cash register ringing.  

 

He taught me that you can stand out from the competition and price doesn't always matter. Give customers more than they expect and create an experience they will never forget. Frank also taught me about the business world. He taught me that people buy from people they trust. Trust me; I had to earn his trust by listening and following up. Even the programs I would present to him, he would offer advice on how it might be a little bit better from a business perspective.

 

Frank, as a Mentor and Friend, has impacted my business life. Our time together on the golf course discussing business and life was priceless. I am lucky to have Frank as Mentor.  

 

I was thinking about the benefits of having a Men-Tor in your life.

 

Guidance and Support: 

Mentorship provides guidance and support from someone who has already achieved what you are striving towards. A good mentor can help you navigate the obstacles and challenges you may face and give advice on how to tackle them. Having a mentor can be especially helpful when starting a new business or entering a new industry.

 

Networking and Connections:

Through your mentor, you gain access to their network and connections, which can be valuable in growing your own business or career. They can introduce you to other industry leaders and professionals who can provide further guidance, insight, and opportunities.

 

Real-Life Experiences: 

A mentor can provide real-life experiences and practical advice you can't get from any book or online course. Learning from their shortfalls and successes can allow you to make better-informed decisions regarding your business.

 

Personal Growth: 

A mentor can help you identify your strengths and weaknesses and provide guidance on how to address them. Through this process, you gain new insights and skills to help you in your career and personal life.

 

Accountability: 

Lastly, having a mentor keeps you accountable for your goals and actions. Your mentor can provide constructive feedback and push you to accomplish more than you thought possible. This level of accountability can be a game-changer in your personal and professional growth.

 

 

Mentorship is essential in business because it provides guidance, support, networking opportunities, real-life experiences, personal growth, and accountability. Don't be afraid to seek out a mentor in your industry, someone who has already been where you want to go. And if you're a seasoned professional, consider becoming a mentor to help lift the next generation of leaders. There is power in mentorship, and it has the potential to propel you and your business to success.

 

I want to thank all the Men that have Mentored me. My success reflects the time and energy you invested in me. Real Men do Mentor!

 

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Episode 202, Your Life Degree!

Create Sales meetings in minutes. Lisa Thal is an Author, Speaker, and Business Coach. She has over 36 years of marketing, sales, and leadership experience. She wrote the book "Three Word Meetings."  Lisa coaches leaders on creating sales and business meetings with fun and interesting 3-word topics to create a conversation and inspire your sales team.

 

Here is an interesting fact: only 46% of college graduates who earned their degree work in that field. That percentage didn't surprise me. Most of us that went to College learned about other industries that appealed more to us. We were limited to what we knew was available as careers. I didn't realize broadcast sales and management was a career until I went to College. My vision was limited to thinking a broadcast career was the talent in front or behind the cameras.

 

I started thinking about the lessons I learned that helped me succeed in life and business. So no matter what you majored in, we learned something from our experiences. We earned a degree in how to navigate our lives and careers.

 

The Three Lessons I Learned in Graduation That Helped Me Succeed in Life and Business.

 

Graduating College might seem like just another chapter in your life's story, but it's a significant milestone that shapes who you are. It was a moment of pure joy – the realization that I'd made it through four long years of hard work and countless all-nighters, not from studying but celebrating late into the night with other students.  

I recognize now that the years I spent in College taught me valuable lessons that have shaped my success in business today. 

 

I'll share the three things I learned in College that have been instrumental in my business life.

 

 

Perseverance is key.

 

Graduating College taught me a vital lesson – that perseverance is critical to success. In College, I never gave up, no matter how hard or long it took me to achieve something. Whether it was pulling an all-nighter for an exam or submitting a project with a tight deadline, I persevered. Today, in the fast-paced business world, I hold on to the same principles – that success takes time and determination. When I face business challenges that seem too overwhelming, I remind myself that strategic persistence is critical to achieving my desired outcome.

 

Relationships are vital to every success story.

 

In College, I met new people, formed friendships, and nurtured connections that have lasted to this day. These relationships have become essential to my success as they've opened doors and created opportunities for me. In the same vein, relationships in business are the key to building a successful enterprise. Whether creating a robust network of mentorships, forming partnerships, or engaging customers, building supportive relationships is a must-have skill for everyone.

 

Learning never stops.

 

Our lives are one big classroom! Learning to lean into diverse experiences, ideas, and cultures in College helped shape my perspective. I honed my critical thinking, analytical, and communication skills, which I still apply today. My experience taught me that learning is a continuous process that never stops, and that's the same in business. Constant learning allows us to evolve and stay ahead of the competition. 

 

 

My advice, keep majoring in the majors, your life! 

We all can learn life-changing experiences to prepare us for the classroom called life. These lessons, which include perseverance, the importance of relationships, and the fact that learning never stops, have been instrumental in shaping my success story.

 

I would love to hear what you learned in College that served you in the business world.  

 

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Create engaging sales meetings in minutes! 

My easy-to-use process can quickly create impactful meetings tailored to your team's needs. 

 

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Episode 201, Coaching for Success.

Create Sales meetings in minutes. Lisa Thal is an Author, Speaker, and Business Coach. She has over 36 years of marketing, sales, and leadership experience. She wrote the book "Three Word Meetings."  Lisa coaches leaders on creating sales and business meetings with fun and interesting 3-word topics to create a conversation and inspire your sales team.

 

Episode 201, Coaching for Success. 

 

I believe there is a difference between Managing and Coaching. We manage processes, timelines, and our email inboxes. On the other hand, we coach the most important resource, our team. We are coaching each individual to be their best, Coaching progress and growth.

 

Let me ask you a question. When you think about the managers you have worked with, who comes to mind? Some of you may say the more critical or destructive managers or those who inspired you, cared about you, and focused on your professional and personal growth.

 

I was getting started in my career. Kim Smith Williams was one of the best managers I was coached by, and influenced my success. She cared about me and coached me to my talents and potential. She was a great teacher who invested her time in improving me and cared about my professional growth. 

 

Yes, many managers didn't care about me or other employees. They were too focused on managing up versus spending time and energy with the people that needed them. One manager was more destructive, and another was more constructive in their Coaching, building me up and teaching progress and growth. In both cases, I learned from both.

 

Coaching employees can be challenging for any manager. Unfortunately, many coaching sessions can end up being overwhelmingly negative. 

 

Coaching is an essential skill that can differentiate average managers from great ones. Even well-intentioned managers can cross the line and become destructive, making employees feel discouraged or defensive. The key is to learn how to challenge employees constructively: one that inspires, motivates and drives them toward success in their professional growth.

 

Here are five tips to help you Coach more constructively.

 

Start with the Right Mindset

One of the fundamental principles of Coaching is that everyone has the potential to improve. Don't go into your coaching sessions thinking you're there to highlight your employee's shortcomings. Instead, focus on strengths and collaborate on how to build upon them. To be a constructive coach, focus on growth rather than correction. A growth mindset will allow you to provide constructive and impactful Feedback while establishing a foundation of trust and respect.

 

 

Listen and Ask Open-Ended Questions

Coaching is not a one-way street; we are in it together, so you listen actively and allow your employees to share their thoughts and Feedback. Ask open-ended questions that invite a conversation rather than shut down discussion. For example, what are you seeing with your business? What are your thoughts on moving this account forward? This approach shows that you value their views and opinions, and it encourages them to take ownership of their progress. When employees feel heard and valued, they're more open to Feedback and more likely to act on it. Remember, we are on the same team - team progress.

 

 

Give Feedback

Everyone deserves Feedback on how they are doing. Start by asking your employee for their Feedback first to gain their perspective. Offer Feedback close to the time performance occurred so that it's fresh in both of your minds. This way, you can provide specific examples and ask clarifying questions. Additionally, timely Feedback allows employees to adjust course on a project or task, pivoting to a more successful path.

 

 

Focus on Behavior, Not Personality

It's crucial to approach Feedback focusing on specific behaviors rather than personality traits. Our teams consist of various personalities. Please focus on the behaviors or activities that can help them succeed.  

 

 

End on a Positive Note

It's always a good idea to end a coaching session on a positive note. Make it clear that you value your employee's work and care and are there for their success. Recognize any progress they've made and offer encouragement for what lies ahead. This positive reinforcement will create a healthy coaching environment and encourage employees to grow and learn.

 

Remember to approach Coaching with a growth mindset, listen actively, deliver Feedback promptly, focus on behavior instead of personality, and always end positively. With these tips in mind, you'll be well on your way to being a constructive coach and effective manager.

 

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Episode 200, How do you define Success?

Create Sales meetings in minutes. Lisa Thal is an Author, Speaker, and Business Coach. She has over 36 years of marketing, sales, and leadership experience. She wrote the book "Three Word Meetings."  Lisa coaches leaders on creating sales and business meetings with fun and interesting 3-word topics to create a conversation and inspire your sales team.

 

How Do You Define Success?

 

Success is a subjective term that means different things to different people. Ask any CEO, Business owner, salesperson, or sales manager what their definition of Success is, and you'll likely get a different answer from each. However, a few key themes often come up when discussing Success, such as achieving goals, making a positive impact, and being happy. We will explore what Success means and how you can define it.

 

 

Success as Goal Achievement: 

Many people define Success as achieving specific goals, whether they be financial, career-related, or personal. If you've set a goal for yourself and accomplished it, that's a success. However, it's important to note that Success isn't just about the result but also the journey. The effort and learning that goes into achieving the goal is also a measure of Success.

 

Success as Making a Positive Impact:

 Another common theme in defining Success is making a positive impact on others. Many people feel successful when they can help others, whether by volunteering, mentoring, or making a difference in their community. Making a positive impact can be especially rewarding for those in sales or who run their own business, as it's a way to see the tangible effects of their work.

 

Success as Being Happy: 

Ultimately, Success may come down to being happy. If you're satisfied with your life and accomplishments, that's a success. However, happiness can be a tricky thing to define. What makes one person happy may not make another person happy. Some people find happiness in their work, while others must balance work and other aspects of their life to be happy. Ultimately, defining Success as being happy means figuring out what brings you joy and fulfillment.

 

Success as Growth and Learning: 

Another way to look at Success is as a process of growth and learning. This approach focuses less on specific goals or accomplishments and more on the journey. It also emphasizes the idea that Success is not a one-time thing. It's something that you need to work towards continually. If you're constantly learning, trying new things, and growing, then that's a success.

 

Success as Resilience: 

Being successful also means being able to bounce back from failures and setbacks. As a salesperson, business owner, or CEO, you'll likely experience challenges and obstacles. However, it's how you respond to those challenges that will determine your level of Success. Being able to persevere and stay motivated in the face of adversity is an essential measure of Success.

 

 

Success means different things to different people, but common themes emerge when discussing it. Whether you define Success as achieving goals, making a positive impact, being happy, growing and learning, or being resilient, finding a definition that resonates with you is essential. 

 

Ultimately, Success is a journey, not a destination. You need to work towards it continually, and it's okay if your definition of Success changes over time. By focusing on what's important to you and measuring your progress along the way, you can define and achieve Success on your terms.

 

 

Here is something to think about when you define Success. 

We become the stories we tell ourselves, so it is crucial that we, as narrators, frame our experiences with thoughts that inspire us for growth. We want to fill our minds with phrases that create a growth mindset. We are good enough. I can do this. It is possible, and I will learn from each experience.

 

 

How do you define Success?  

I would love to hear your thoughts.

 

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Episode 199, Why Moms Matter!

Create Sales meetings in minutes. Lisa Thal is an Author, Speaker, and Business Coach. She has over 36 years of marketing, sales, and leadership experience. She wrote the book "Three Word Meetings."  Lisa coaches leaders on creating sales and business meetings with fun and interesting 3-word topics to create a conversation and inspire your sales team.

 

Episode 199, Why Moms Matter!

 

In this episode, I share my personal experiences of why Moms matter.

 

I was hiking the pups enjoying nature and thinking about my Mom and Mother's Day. What I know for sure is being a Mom is not easy. Moms make sacrifices for us. What Moms do better than most is to help their kids create a pathway for their kid's journey.

 

I also know Moms, including Mom Thal, are doing their best to raise their kids. Moms get the most out of each day with tasks switching from work to their kids' lives, friends, and family demands, and they do it with such grace. It's not easy, nor is life, as my Mom would say. 

 

I am so grateful to have the ability to see and talk to my Mom. At 92 years old, I don't take for granted each conversation, each time I get to hug her, hold her hand, and tell her how much I love her. I know today can be challenging for many listening because your moms are no longer here, so I am thinking of you. I am confident your Moms are smiling down on you today on the person you have become and your impact on others.

 

Why Moms Matter! 

As I get older, I realize their significance in our lives.

 

Moms matter for many reasons. They are a source of unconditional love and support, providing comfort and assurance in times of need. The one person that could make me feel better when I was sick or sad was my Mom. Reflecting on my life in those moments, I always felt better knowing my Mom was by my side.

 

 

Moms matter because they represent strength and stability in our lives. From early childhood, moms are our first teachers and guides, nurturing us with love, discipline, and lessons that will help shape us into confident, capable adults.  

 

One lesson Mom Thal taught me was the ability to be independent and take care of yourself. She taught us the importance of financially taking care of ourselves, including getting a good education and job, giving the employer more than expected, and Being a great friend! This was her number one goal for all our children.

 

 

Moms matter because they are the cornerstone of families, providing a steady and reliable presence throughout life's challenges. They are our biggest supporters, always offering encouragement and guidance as we strive to reach our goals. 

 

Moms matter because they give us the tools to navigate life's problems. They offer guidance, support, and advice to help us make meaningful decisions and cope with difficult situations. Moms provide emotional support and understanding, allowing us to work through anger, sadness, loneliness, and fear. Moms are conflict resolutionists. They show us how to deal with conflict and find solutions for us.

 

Moms matter because they love us unconditionally, no matter our path. They are our biggest cheerleaders, lifting us up when needed and helping to build our confidence and self-esteem.

 

Moms make sacrifices. Rarely putting themselves first. I see it daily with my sisters, friends, and the women I work with who give endless hours of time and energy to improve their kids' lives.

 

 

Moms matter because they provide a deep and lasting connection between ourselves, our families, and our friends. They give us a sense of belonging and security, teaching us the importance of forging meaningful relationships. 

 

This is the great lesson I learned from my Mom. I witnessed the countless friendships she developed with all the people at UC Health and her deep connections with her friends. At 92, some of her dearest friends have passed, and she still shares those heart-connection moments she experienced. 

 

 

Moms are irreplaceable and an invaluable part of our lives. From the moment we are born until the day we depart this earth, their love is a constant source of strength and comfort that can help guide us through life's journey. No matter the circumstances, moms always matter in our lives.

 

So I am asking you to join me in putting down your phones, call or sit with your Mom and let her know how much you appreciate all she did and has done for you. You may have had some challenging moments, but that is life. 

 

I am forever grateful for My Mom. 

She impacted and shaped my life. 

Her life Matters!

 

 

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