Episode 207, The One Superpower you need in Sales and Life!

Create Sales meetings in minutes. Lisa Thal is an Author, Speaker, and Business Coach. She has over 36 years of marketing, sales, and leadership experience. She wrote the book "Three Word Meetings."  Lisa coaches leaders on creating sales and business meetings with fun and interesting 3-word topics to create a conversation and inspire your sales team.

 

Episode 207, The One Superpower you need in Sales and Life!

How do we navigate rejection in our life and business.

Don't Fear Rejection!

 

Today we are talking about Rejection! Let me ask you a question, When I say Rejection, which emotions typically arise, anger, sadness, embarrassment, and shame? But what if we shift or, better yet, reframe how we feel when we face and think about Rejection?

 

Learning how to manage Rejection is a key SuperPower you can use in all aspects of your life.

 

The difference is how we frame, feel about, and respond to Rejection. We don't need to Fear Rejection; we face and embrace it. It has been my experience that through all the Rejection I met, I learned something about myself or grew from each experience. 

 

What about your career, especially if you're in sales?

Sales can be a gratifying career but also present its share of challenges. One of the toughest hurdles to overcome is Rejection. No matter how skilled or knowledgeable you are, there will always be times when potential customers say no. While it's painful to hear that someone isn't interested in what you have to offer, it's important to remember that it's not personal. 

 

Let's explore five strategies to help you overcome Rejection and succeed in sales.

 

 

Reframe Your Mindset

 

The first step in dealing with Rejection is to shift your mindset. Instead of seeing a "no" as a personal failure, try reframing it as an opportunity to learn and improve. Every Rejection is a chance to gain insight into how to approach the next potential customer better. Celebrate each "no" as a "not yet" or a step closer to a "yes."  

 

 

Be Resilient

 

Resilience is key in sales. You need to bounce back from Rejection and keep moving forward. One of the best ways to cultivate resilience is by practicing self-care. Take daily breaks, hydrate, eat healthy, and get enough sleep. When you feel refreshed and energized, you will have the energy to work through Rejection.

 

 

Don't Take It Personally.

 

It's important to remember that Rejection is not about you. It's about your product or service not fitting for that particular customer. Don't take it personally or let it affect your self-esteem. Remember, your job is your role, not your identity.

 

 

Stay Curious

 

If a potential customer says no, take the opportunity to ask for feedback. Ask them what they didn't like about your product or service, why they decided not to move forward, and why they went with a different vendor. You can identify areas for improvement and refine your approach for the next time. It also shows the customer that you're committed to continually improving and providing the best possible experience.

 

 

Get Support

 

Finally, don't be afraid to lean on your support system when dealing with Rejection. Many people I have coached, and athletes tend to use Rejection as a chip on their should and use that energy to prove others wrong. That may work for some. What if you reframed Rejection in more of a positive way? Show the people that believe in you that they were right. Life is full of setbacks, and you will find a way to get there. 

 

So, surround yourself with positive, supportive people who can offer encouragement to stay motivated. Whether it's a colleague, friend, mentor, or family member, having someone to talk to can make a big difference. Surround yourself with people that energize you versus take energy from you.

 

 

In sales and life, Rejection is inevitable, but it doesn't have to be the end of the road. By reframing your mindset, practicing resilience, not taking Rejection personally, staying curious, and surrounding yourself with people that believe in you, you can bounce back from Rejection and ultimately succeed in sales. 

 

 

Remember that every "no" brings you closer to a "yes," and that every Rejection is an opportunity to learn, grow, and improve. So don't get discouraged - keep pushing forward, make the adjustments, and you'll achieve your goals.

 

 

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